Spread: Dating Spreadsheet

Spread – The Intentional Dating Companion

Modern dating can feel chaotic. Endless swipes. Mixed signals. Potential that never quite potentials. It is easy to lose sight of what you actually want.

Spread helps you date with clarity.

Spread is not a dating app. It is your private dating companion. A structured, thoughtful tool that helps you reflect, notice patterns, and stay aligned with your standards. Think of it as the world’s first dating spreadsheet, journal, roster, and compatibility companion built for intentional dating.

~ Compatibility ~

Dating is not just about who someone is. It is about whether they are right for you.

With Spread, you define your own:
• Must haves
• Dealbreakers
• Nice to haves

As you get to know someone, you can track which traits they meet and see a personalized compatibility percentage based on the values you entered.

This is not about rating a human being. It is about understanding alignment.

There is a difference between saying, “This person is an 82 out of 100,” and saying, “Based on what I said I need in a partner, this person meets 82 percent of that.” That distinction matters.

~ Connection ~

Flags contribute to your Connection score. Connection reflects how interactions build closeness over time.

Connection communicates:
• Emotional safety
• Mutual respect
• Ease
• Feeling seen and understood
• Trust forming through behavior

Green flags represent behaviors that open the door emotionally and socially.
Beige flags represent neutral information without emotional charge.
Red flags represent behaviors that create friction, tension, or emotional shutdown.

Connection is behavior based, not fantasy based. It is about what someone consistently does, not how intense the chemistry feels in week two.

Spread moves you from asking, “Is this a good person?” to asking the better question, “Is this a good person for me?”

~ Why You’ll Love Spread ~

• Organize your dating life
Log names, details, and notes to keep track of your matches, past or present.

• See connection clearly
View how green, beige, and red flags collectively shape the connection over time.

• Stay aligned with your values
Compare your defined traits with lived experience.

• Learn as you date
Access curated relationship videos on communication, attachment styles, and dating psychology.

• Private by design