The NotME App

The NotME App – Empowering Clear, Enthusiastic Consent

The NotME app promotes transparent, mutual, and enthusiastic consent for promote clear communication, personal boundaries, and mutual understanding between adults. Its goal is to help every participant clearly understand one another’s intentions before any encounter whether they meet in person, online, through dating platforms, or at private social events.

Each participant creates a verified profile, with optional age and ID verification (verified users receive a pink checkmark). Users can also sponsor another person’s verification for added trust.

Once connected, a unique QR code is generated for each rendezvous. By scanning or sharing this code, all participants can privately select what activities they enthusiastically consent to. The app then displays only the mutually agreed-upon choices ensuring clear boundaries and shared understanding for everyone involved.

All confirmed consent data is securely stored and can only be accessed under legal process (such as a subpoena or court order).

The app also features a universal safe word: SEESAW when spoken, it signals that the interaction must stop immediately, reinforcing the principle that true connection only works when both sides are in sync.

The NotME App – Because real consent is mutual, clear, and enthusiastic.


We offer users the choice of auto-renewable subscriptions in monthly, 6-month, or annual plans, as well as consumable plans for ID Verification. Prices may vary by country and are subject to change without notice. All prices are clearly displayed within the app.
* Payment will be charged to your iTunes account at confirmation of purchase.
* Your subscription will automatically renew itself, unless auto-renewal is turned off at least 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period.
* You can manage your subscriptions and turn off auto-renewal by going to your Account Settings in the iTunes Store.


Your personal data is securely stored on The NotME app, be sure to read our privacy policy and terms and conditions:
https://thenotmeapp.com/privacy-policy
https://thenotmeapp.com/terms-conditions