BedStats: Intimacy Journal

BedStats is a private, local-first intimacy journal for adults who want a calm record of their relationship life.

Log the moments that matter. Keep track of mood, wellbeing, and connection. Plan ahead. Your story stays on your phone, where it belongs.

— LOCAL-FIRST, NO ACCOUNT, NO TRACKING —

• Your data lives on your phone, not on our servers
• No sign-up, no tracking, no ads
• Unlock with Face ID, Touch ID, or your passcode
• Switch to a discreet home-screen icon when you want one

— LOG WHAT MATTERS —

• Solo or partnered entries
• Multiple partners per entry, each with their own details
• Activities, wellness, and safety notes
• Protection preferences and reproductive health tracking
• Initiator, place, duration, personal ratings
• Mood, feelings, and free-form notes
• Photos and short videos, stored locally
• Customizable forms: hide fields you never use, rename the ones you do

— SEE THE PATTERNS —

• Wellbeing entries and optional daily check-ins
• Frequency, streaks, and average duration
• Per-partner insights and history
• Safety coverage at a glance
• Monthly calendar heatmap
• Charts for protection, solo vs. partnered, and initiator
• Wellbeing-vs-activity trendline
• Map of entry locations (optional)
• Apple Health sync (optional)
• On-device Apple Intelligence summary of recent patterns (optional, iOS 18.1+)

— HOME SCREEN, LOCK SCREEN, CONTROL CENTER —

• Activity Heatmap widget
• Recent Entries widget
• Days Since Last Entry counters
• Filtered Entries, Metric Counter, and Quick Actions widgets
• Control Center widget to start a Quick Entry in one tap
• Live Activity and Dynamic Island timer for in-progress entries

— PLAN AHEAD —

• Schedule planned entries with reminders
• Quick-start timer for live logging, with Live Activity
• Notifications only when you ask for them

— PARTNERS, YOUR WAY —

• Add partners with pronouns, default preferences, and health dates
• Works for monogamous, open, poly, or casual setups
• Built for every gender, orientation, and relationship style
• Hide partner names if you want extra discretion

— PRIVACY, SERIOUSLY —

BedStats was built around one idea: your personal life is nobody's business but yours. So the app is local-first by default. No account, no cloud, no analytics. Just a quiet, adult journal that stays